Going Out En Femme For Your First Crossdressed Outing, This is The Place To Go

I've had some questions recently which got me to thinking about going out for the first time en femme. As a crossdresser this can be one of the scariest moments of your life and it especially difficult if you have no one to go with.

I remember my first time and I was terrified. I had decided to attend a gay pride in another city so I would not have to be worried about running into somebody I knew. I picked a hotel close to where the entertainment was taking place, packed all my crossdressing clothes, shoes, makeup and accessories and headed off full of anticipation of my first time in public en femme.

After checking into my hotel I started the preparations, shaving my legs and face, putting on my makeup and getting dressed. Wearing a short skirt, stockings and pumps I was ready to go and then it struck me. Even though the venue was only about a 5 minute walk away I still had to leave the room, take the elevator down to the lobby, go through the lobby and walk down a public street to get there. That is when the shakes started.

I would like to say that I was brave, held my head high and strode out of my room and embraced my first time out en femme but the reality was much different. Instead, there I sat, completely cross-dressed on the bed and hid. When I looked in the mirror I did not see a passable transgender person but some guy with too much makeup dressed like a woman, a fake, a fraud.

Eventually, once it became dark out, I screwed up enough courage to leave my room. After looking through the peep hole in the door to make sure the hallway was empty I slinked out of my room and, to avoid running into anybody else, walked down 6 flights of stairs and out a side door in 5" heels. Not exactly the most stellar moment in my life as a crossdresser.

And that is where my recent thinking starts. I have come a long way since then with outings to a local bar, the running of my store and now my new crossdressing vacation, an alluring Affair. I realized that if something like an alluring Affair had been available it would have alleviated some of my fear and made for a much more enjoyable first time out en femme.

Why is this? Because an alluring Affair is completely self enclosed. Once you arrive and change into your female persona you choose how much or little contact you have with the non-crossdressing public. Your accomodations and the conference are at the same place so the you can go from your room to the event without ever going outside. And also, you will be surrounded by other crossdressed and transgender people so you won't be alone like I was.

There will be no reason to cower in your room or avoid the elevators since chances are there will be other gurls right there with you. And you won't have to worry about the staff since not only are they expecting you to be en femme, they are looking forward to hosting this crossdress weekend. In fact, the award winning chef at Deerhurst, where we are holding this crossdress holiday, is already figuring fun new ways to present the meals (there was some mention of a chocolate mousse fountain cascading out of a chocolate high heel shoe)

The only drawback for the first time crossdress outing is that this event will spoil you, making it so you don't want to go back to the real world. Between the luxurious accomodations, first rate food (you won't find roast beef under a heat lamp at this venue), professional entertainment and all the fun things there are to do you won't want it to stop. Don't forget, this is the site of the 2010 G8 summit so you will be staying and eating like President Obama will next year. When was the last time you heard of a crossdresser who could boast they were treated like royalty while en femme?

Of course, there is also the problem of choosing what to do in the your female attire. After all, if the weather has cooperated, you can go horseback riding or play 18 holes of golf. For the more outdoor oriented you can go for a hike, rent a bike, take a hummer tour or go for a canoe trip in Algonquin park. Get together with some of the other gurls at an alluring Affair and you could even organize a paintball outing. And, if you don't want to actually leave the building, you could always see about playing a game of tennis at Deerhurst's indoor sportsplex, play some squash, take advantage of the fitness room or just relax at the indoor pool and hottub. Oh yeah, and don't forget to take advantage of the on site spa.

Of course there are the workshops as well. Whether you want to learn how to do crossdress makeup, find your feminine voice or walk like a girl, there is a workshop for you. And because an alluring Affair is all about fun, we have included workshops for that as well. Ever thought about being a drag queen and performing in shows? Then our dance workshop is perfect for the exhibitionist crossdresser because not only will you be taught how to dance in high heels you get to perform in show that night. Or just relax, put on an apron and feel like Loretta Young while having fun learning how to cook with Deerhurst's chef. Or, if you have gotten over your initial fear, head into town and do some shopping.

Because I understand from my first time out that money can be an issue we have developed a payment plan to suit your abilities to pay. Simply put a deposit of $150(USD) down to secure your spot at an alluring Affair and pay the remainder over time. This applies to the single and double occupancy rates because an alluring Affair gives discounts to couples as well. And when you add in the fact that the entire event is covered in one price you can relax knowing that you do not have to pay for anything else when you checkout.(there are some restrictions. Check out the registration page for complete details) Our price includes the taxes, fees, cost of meals, accomodations, everything so you don't have to worry about anything else. We are dedicated to making an alluring Affair the best, most affordable and fun crossdressing vacation ever.

So, to get back to the questions that started all this, an alluring Affair is probably the best event around for the crossdresser looking for some place to go for their first time out en femme....and you will never look back.